Showing posts with label marriage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label marriage. Show all posts

Thursday, March 05, 2009

Three Years

Three years ago today, I was standing in a little hilltop chapel saying my vows to a wonderful man. There were mountain views out of the doors on three sides and cows could be heard moo-ing during the ceremony.



I walked down the aisle (or actually kind of ran - I was so nervous) to Goreki by Lamb. The lyrics of the song really spoke to us both. My dress was red, the colour of celebration and we both wore pieces taken from a vintage wedding kimono, a symbol of the new life we were about to embark upon together. The kimono was a very generous gift from a dear friend. The kimono had been embroidered with white cranes, a symbol we used with the invites and through the wedding.

In Japanese culture the crane not only symbolises peace and a long life, but also a happy marriage. The cranes mate for life and are devoted to their partners throughout the seasons. They work together to build the nest and share the responsibility of raising their young.

The ceremony was simple but heartfelt and witnessed by wonderful friends and family. We were even showered by origami crane confetti, all folded by my wonderful friends who flew over from Japan to celebrate the day with us.

The reception was casual with lots of delicious finger foods....


... and even some Sakura sparkling wine (my own creation).


A week after the wedding, as newlyweds, we moved to Japan together. The last three years have been filled with ups and downs, learning, growing, adventure and travel, challenges and getting to know and love each other more deeply. Now, three years on, we are eagerly (and very nervously) awaiting the arrival of our first child and preparing for a new life back in Australia together.

Wayne, thank you for the last three wonderful years. I love you.

Monday, July 21, 2008

Going Our Separate Ways

I'm leaving my husband tomorrow. Then next week, he will be leaving me.

Don't worry, in a few weeks, we'll be back together.

Tomorrow I'm off to Tokyo continuing my search for good, compasionate health care. Hopefully, that should only take a few hours. I then have a good couple of days on my own to do a fabric and craft shop tour of Tokyo. Much easier without the hubby no matter how wonderful he is.

Next week, hubby will be going to Australia, on his own for two weeks. It will be his first time back since we moved here two and a half years ago. He'll be doing a couple of courses and getting everything ready to have his personal training/massage therapy/acupuncture business up and running again for when we move back to Australia next year. The rest of the time he'll be catching up with family, friends and non-Japanese food.

We both strongly believe that short amounts of time on our own is the best thing for both of us, but boy I'll miss him.

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